The Upper Room Newsletter - Fall 2002

“People Caring for People”

 

As a young person growing up in Ontario there was an advertising jingle that still rings in my ears at this time of year, “Christmas comes but once a year and then it keeps you hopping.” This was followed by the suggestion that one could slow down by doing one’s shopping all in one place. Christmas still calls many to a hectic time of scurrying here and there with a long list in hand.

Perhaps it’s a sign of old age but I’m having to slow down at Christmas and take some time to ask myself some questions. What gift is at the center of my Christmas? Is it the gift to be purchased for my wife of 35 years? Is it the gifts for children and grandchildren? Is it the gifts for residents and others who come to the Upper Room? OR Is it the gift of Jesus Christ? Is it all about God calling, being a presence in the world? Isn’t Christmas all about my response to The GIVER and so the gifts I give are in response to being a recipient.

The hope and prayers of all the staff of the Upper Room is that you might join us in a journey of questions in a response to the One Given.

May God Bless you and yours this Christmas.

      David Stewart, Manager

 

 

                           Little Kids Can Help.

Nine-year-old Nigel Erving was intrigued when he saw people waiting outside the Upper Room at Pandora Avenue.  As he walked past the building on his way to the Victoria Conservatory of Music, where he has piano lessons, he asked his father, Bill Erving about them. He explained to Nigel that they needed clothes and food. That was enough for Nigel who promptly enlisted the help of fellow Grade 3 students, Emily Campbell and Nolan Turcotte, both eight. The result was that the three Rogers Elementary students raised $187.58 for the Upper Room. They presented their gift to Rev. David Stewart, director. Toys and books, leftovers from the school's recent toy sale were also donated. "That's a pretty special thing. He's taught me a whole lot," said Mr. Stewart. He told the youngsters that the money would provide meals for more than 300 people. That impressed them. The trio raised the money by collecting in 15 classrooms after making an announcement on the school's loudspeaker system. "As a parent, you hope something rubs off. I feel a great well of pride," said Nigel's father.

Nolan Turcotte, Emily Campbell and Nigel Erving present their donation to David Stewart.

By John Hogbin                   Photo Bill Erving

 

 

Boards Meet

             The Upper Room was pleased to welcome the Open Door back to its neighborhood this fall.  With the Open Door opening at 935 Pandora Avenue in the former Victoria Gospel Chapel the two agencies are now directly beside each other.

Both Boards of Directors -- the Upper Room and the Open Door -- met in October to discuss the new arrangement. It was a precedent setting meeting and the boards came to several conclusions.

First of all they agreed that the ministry was the work of the Holy Spirit, as was the opportunity to buy the Victoria Gospel Chapel. This is an example of faith in action, they said, as they approached their ministries with renewed vigor.

Communications will be much easier now that the two agencies are sitting side by side on Pandora Street . It will also require that the two work more closely than ever before, using the new model being developed by the boards and the staff.

            This union can be a model for the churches in Victoria and beyond to work closely together and to give up things that keep them apart. They were advised to not fight over space. They must nurture the ability to let go of some things and to maintain other things that are not negotiable. This will take patience and understanding on the part of both boards.

            The two managers--David Stewart and Alan Tysick—took part in the meeting and they agreed that the boards and the institutions will be around long after both of them are gone. This demands that they practice Christian love and understanding and that the agencies do likewise.

 

We Are Learning

            A powerful story comes for the days when pipe organs in theatres and churches were provided with the necessary air by a “bellows boy”.

            One particular evening a very gifted organist was performing in a theatre filled with the ‘establishment’ of the day.  The first half of his performance was greeted by thunderous applause form the audience.  The organist walked off stage as the bellow boy stumbled down the ladder covered in perspiration.

            The artist declared, “Wasn’t I great?”  The young bellows boy drank some water and attempted to recover his strength.

            Intermission over, the artist walked on stage to great applause as he sat down and placed his fingers onto the keyboard.  No sound was forthcoming.  He shouted, “Come on, boy!  Let’s go!”  Again he prepared to play—still nothing.  In anger he shouted louder, “COME ON, BOY!!”  The final time when he shouted the boy spoke up and said, “Say ‘we’ Mister and it will work.”

            The Upper Room and the Open Door are learning to say ‘We’.  Individually both organizations have served those in need by providing food for body and soul, friendship and advocacy, housing and homelike atmosphere. 

            For the past several years we have attempted to co-operate but with obvious difficulty when separated by blocks.  Both the Board of the Upper Room and the Board of the Open Door were faced with inadequate facilities.  Recognizing that we serve the same family of people and that we both come to ministry with a sense of response to Jesus Christ, we have been blessed with being able to share in the purchase of property side by side.

            Now the Open Door and the Upper Room jointly own the property from 919 to 935 Pandora Avenue .  While we remain as two individual servants, we are in a position to work together in our calling to serve the needs of those most in need.

            As we learn to say ‘we’ the staff has come together, the Boards have come together to explore ways and means to give expression to our calling.  And to provide the facilities and human presence to respond to the ever-increasing members who need us.

Library

The Upper Room will one day have a library.

It will be an upstairs room that is unsuitable for living in. The books will come from volunteers including the “Friends of the Greater Victoria Library” who gives the leftover books from its annual book sale.

The residents who live upstairs can enjoy a quiet place to read or perhaps borrow a book or puzzle to enjoy.

 

Mrs. Stevens

Not many people know about Mrs. Stevens except the 600 odd souls who have a New Year’s Eve dinner each year compliments of Mrs. Stevens and her family. Each year for the past four years she and her family have sponsored a dinner and served it. The servers include her children and grandchildren. Another New Years is coming and Mrs. Stevens has plans to do it again. It’s a great gift from really dedicated and Christian people.

See related item,Bringing in the New Year

 

The Upper Room

919 Pandora Ave.

Victoria , BC   V8V 3P4

Phone: 250-388-7112            email: uroom@island.net

“As for me and my house we shall serve the Lord”

Joshua 24:15

  

 Special Meals

 

Masonic Lodge Pays for Dinner

            Thanksgiving dinner was special for 575 people who ate at the St. Andrew’s Presbyterian Kirk Hall. The dinner was cooked and delivered by the Upper Room staff and was paid for and served by members of Masons Lodge.

Bringing in the New Year

            On December 31, 2002 we will serve a free turkey dinner to about 600 people. It’s nice for people to end a year knowing they are cared for, and to start the year on a full stomach. See related article; Mrs. Stevens.

Watch for it!

            The Valentine’s Lunch will be held at First Metropolitan United Church and paid for BC Ferries employees. The ferries’ employees also gather for several evenings ahead of the meal to help prepare the mountains of vegetables required and to slice the roast beef.

Good Friday

          We celebrate Easter with a fine free meal serving about 650 people. We welcome men, women and children to all our meals at the Upper Room. We especially appreciate the extra volunteers who help us prepare in advance for the meal, as well as those who cheerfully serve others on the special day. Thank you.

Upper Room feeds people from other agencies

          More and more agencies are referring people to the Upper Room. This year so far the number is 16,950 meals. These agencies have no capacity to serve meals or else they have reached their limit of meals for the day. These agencies include St. Vincent de Paul, the Mustard Seed, Salvation Army, and Streetlink. The Upper Room is an invaluable resource to those people who need two hot meals a day.  Many have little or no means to buy the food. Some have no cooking facilities, while others need the companionship offered at our meals. We are there to meet these needs.

Number of Meals

            The total number of meals served so far this year is about 89,000. That’s a long way from the 500 meals served when the Upper Room started 40 years ago, above a store,  in downtown Victoria .

 

Mary Anderson –A Good Volunteer

                 Victoria was the winner when Mary Anderson and her husband Ross moved here from Toronto in the 1980s. Mary started working at the Upper Room and has been here ever since.

            Every Thursday morning Mary makes her way downtown and does whatever needs to be done, from chopping vegetables to ladling out soup. She finds it “very interesting and rewarding helping the poor people.”

            Many of the people are familiar to her. She recognizes them from her years at the Upper Room. It’s certainly filling a need, she says, and as the government reduces its welfare roll the number of people coming in to eat increases. “It’s pitiful, really,” she says.

            Volunteer work is not new to Mary. In Toronto she worked one day a week at a local school for disabled children. The children got treatment at the school and Mary helped them move about.

            She also worked at the local Lutheran church in Toronto doing secretarial work. She produced the weekly bulletin in the days before they got professional secretarial help, but with the advent of computers she feels she couldn’t do that work now. She’s content dishing out soup and giving the men a friendly smile.

            When she started at the Upper Room she was joined by two others from Grace Lutheran Church whose names started with ‘M’: Martha Sharon, Myra Corrigal and herself, Mary Anderson. They were known as the 3 Ms. She’s the only one left there now.

            She told me she’d not very heroic, but I think she’s doing her heroic bit. She’s dishing out soup and smiles and being a friend to the folks who need someone to care for them. Good work, Mary Anderson, you are heroic indeed!

   

 

 

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